According
to the latest statistics, eleven Canadians die from suicide every
day, 4000 every year. So where do I fit in?
Well, first of
all, I belong to a high risk age group (45-59 years old). A third of
all suicides belong in this cohort. Second, as a man, I am 3 times
more likely than a woman to take my own life.
My infographic
profile though is even more specific. I belong to the 2.5% of Canadians who
have had thoughts of suicide over the past year and to the 4% of
those who have actually made plans at some point in their life. In
addition, I belong with the 3.1% who have made a suicide attempt.
While many of
the stats appear to be low percentages, don't lose sight of the fact
that the actual numbers of completed suicides in Canada is quite
high. Overall, it is the 9th leading cause of death in Canada, 4th
among males who are between 50 and 54 years old.
I
check off a lot of the high risk boxes and if I let the dark thoughts
take hold, all I see is the stats stacked against me; that suicide is
inevitable.
The numbers
though don't show the complete picture. There are lots of other
people out there fighting as hard as I am. There is more than
just the disease. There is help, medication, therapy and the sheer will to succeed.
The
number of survivors with mental health challenges far outweighs those
who have completed suicide. I belong to the 64% of people who have a
serious mental illness who are currently receiving treatment.(US data).
I
have a therapist and a psychiatrist.
Mental
health therapy reduces the risk of suicide. According to a Danish report,
talk therapy alone reduced the number of repeat suicide attempts and
completions by 25%. Moreover, 80% of those who have sought therapy
indicated they were better off than those who hadn't (US data). Cognitive
Behavioral Therapy in particular has helped 75% of participants
including myself.(US data).
Statistics can
be deceiving. While they should not be ignored, they should also not
be considered a line of destiny. I may be a cohort, an age group, a
gender at risk but none of these stats define me specifically. And so
I tell myself that nothing is inevitable, that I am strong and can
push through, that I can make it and not be another suicide stat,
even if it is just for today.